This is a tale of two neighbors, one good and one...not so good.

Excerpt from:
Mending Fences, by Robert Frost.
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Before I built a wall I'd ask to know
What I was walling in or walling out,
And to whom I was like to give offense.
Something there is that doesn't love a wall,
That wants it down.' I could say, 'Elves' to him,
But it's not elves exactly, and I'd rather
He said it for himself. I see him there
Bringing a stone grasped firmly by the top
In each hand, like an old-stone savage armed.
He moves in darkness as it seems to me
Not of woods only and the shade of trees.
He will not go behind his father's saying,
And he likes having thought of it so well
He says again, "Good fences make good neighbors."
by Robert Frost
And sometimes, it isn't good fences that make good neighbors, but rather good neighbors who make good fences.
What didn't like fences was a nasty storm named Ike.
And I mean to tell you, he REALLY didn't like fences.
We got an estimate from a fencing company for fixing half of the back and half of the side (all that we THOUGHT was damaged), came to $1100. Ouch.
Then the Wests came over. Mr. West had a proposition...he wanted to rebuild the fence together as he didn't have the money to help pay for the fence. We'd not even considered asking him for anything. We owed him... we still owe him. We made a proposition of our own: instead of paying $1100 to a company, use the money we'd have had to pay them for materials to rebuild our common fence, and the other two fences the Wests had down and the back (North) fence of ours.
So, we went shopping.
May I interject here to say that a bag of Quickcrete has got to be one of the heaviest things that can actually, almost, be picked up by one person?

After taking down the old fence (which took quite a while), we...by that I mean Mr. West and wife and I and 'Pup tried to dig post holes with no post hole digger. Those things were harder to get than ice after the storm, and NO ONE was giving them away. We did get to borrow a neighbor's, but we got another one special order from Ace Hardware.
As it so happens, while we'd thought we'd only lost half that side fence, it really turned out that all 8 posts had to be replaced. So much for the $1100 estimate. It would probably have been closer to $2000. We considered reusing the old pickets, but then decided to just do it up right. We did reuse a few of the older pickets in the back corner, where bushes and a fig tree and some trellis will be hiding the color difference.

As you can see, Mr. West still has his back fence to get to... but his neighbor to the north is promising to help out. Eventually.

And it's all done... and Ah Heyallped. I really did! I pounded in most of the bottom course of nails....well I pounded in a lot of them. It's remarkable what you can do sitting down. All in all, it's a pretty good deal for the Wests and for us. For far less than $2000, we're replacing 4 complete fences, not just 2 halves. And we're getting some time to spend with some good neighbors.

When we got back from Chicago, Mr. West had not only finished his western fence, but had also started on the new posts for the north fence in our yard.

Since he didn't want the dogs to be let loose, he kept the old fence up... easy to do as it had been blown to the North's yard.
We considered tearing down the old fence before we put up the new pickets, but we didn't know how long it would take to finish, and we didn't want to leave the back yards unsecured. We have dogs, and so do the Norths.

So, we finished repairing the back fence without tearing down the old one.
We halfway.... well, more than halfway... joked about putting a sign on the fence saying "No one should live their life never owning a fence...Merry Christmas".
We're tired, especially Mr. West. I really have been helping where I can. 'Pup's hands don't let him hold a hammer, but he can carry boards and such, and I still do wield a fairly good hammer. We've provided the tools and materials, but it's wearing and Mrs West wants a little family time.
We want to replace the other half of the fence, to match the new one in a couple of weeks. The old fence can stay up until then, unless Ms North just HAS to have it down, and if so, she can do. it. herself.
I have little pity for her. She is not one of my favorite people. As a thumbnail sketch of her: she once owned a dog that ate through a former incarnation of the fence because he was afraid of thunder and fireworks and they'd left him alone in the backyard with some food, for a 4 day weekend. This was a beautiful Golden Lab who'd been hand raised and had lived inside a house with his young owner. He got lonely and scared and came visiting.
Brain (he of blessed memory) was always a good host. He showed Champ in and showed him where the food bowl was and where the people were... Brain always did like company.
For the rest of the summer, I replaced fence pickets as Champ ate through, broke through and went over the fence to get to us. Ms North even paid for half of the pickets..not the nails....but half the pickets.
She ended up chaining the dog to a large tree in the back corner of her lot. He was in an area of about 8' by 8'. He was never walked, so was forced to soil his sleeping area. Dogs hate that. He was never petted or kept company. He took to trying to climb over the fence again. And one day, he did it. There was just enough slack in the chain to make sure he suffocated slowly as he hung from the fence.
No, this is not my favorite person in the world.
She was and is not pleased about the fact that we've not yet torn down that fence. I got a phone call from her:
She's a Charmer, ain't she? When she got over here, she was yelling more and cussing and carrying on. We told her that if she wanted the fence taken down before we got to it, she was welcomed to do it. She indignantly told us that she couldn't do that, as she didn't have a truck. Uhmm.. neither do we.
Her last shot was a long wail about how useless her (eastern) neighbor was and that she was going to have to put in a WHOLE SIDE fence by herself.. and that now, she couldn't put her dog (a little white, fluffy barker), couldn't be put outside because he might get stuck in the old fence and DIE.
I am developing a real dislike of that woman.
More about my good neighbors next. This episode has taken me about 4 days to write. The good stuff is just a whole lot more fun, somehow.